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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To all of the people piling on OP about not thinking about researching college financial aid years in advance, I’m guessing that OP and her exDH may not have gone to college and didn’t realize how many years of saving and how tangled the financial aid process is.  Should OP try to take a more active role in helping her DD find money for school?  Of course, but it’s just as much the bio dad’s fault that OP’s daughter is in this predicament.  He should not get off scot free here.[/quote]

And if OP's post indicated that she was at all sorry that she put her DD in this situation, there might be less piling on.  But basically, she screwed her DD to benefit herself, and wants her DD to shut the heck up about it.  The way that DD is being treated in this family is terrible and she has every right to be p*ssed.  I understand that OP is concerned that her DD is going to wreck her relationships with these people but it is not at all clear to me why DD should care about that at all.  [/quote]

Well since it’s just happenstance that they even know them no big loss if the relationship is wrecked [/quote]

lol, right? Just happenstance. OP just accidentally got married and put her dd in this position and is telling her to just deal and be grateful.[/quote]

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