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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think its perfectly ok to let your husband know that this comment got back to you. Tell him it made you feel kinda ick. I have not read all the comments, but I think its wrong to pretend you arent vulnerable. If DH is your best friend, you should be able to say that something said like its a secret makes it feel like there is a metamessage. Tell him you are getting older and no matter how intact your self esteem is, it stings to hear him find a younger woman attractive, even if she is, because its a reminder that you cant always be young and attractive.

Don't make him feel like he is a terrible person for making an offhand command that in fact may have meant NOTHING to _him_. (This is a very real possibility)

However, he is a grown man and should be ok learning about what its like to be you in an awkward vulnerable moment where you wish you could brush it off. And he as your life partner should take that into consideration. Also maybe he wouldnt love it so much if you talked about some guy being hot and it got back to HIM. On the other hand, its very possible he would NOT care. Either way, here is a chance to learn about his ability to empathize, and its a chance for you to do the same.[/quote]
This is the funniest comment I’ve seen in days.  Thank you for sharing!  If true, the anxious insecurity of so many displayed on this and similar threads, leads me to really pity you all.  But don’t worry it’s not the pity that comes with compassion (which you crave, but I reserve for those truly suffering), just bewilderment.[/quote]

+1.  This comment is jut so earnestly ridiculous (metamessage? WTF?).[/quote]

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