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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]All of that can be addressed during the game. It is the best time to address it, because then the kids can work on it -- wait for it -- in the game under game conditions. Games are practices too. It is a place to continue to try and work on things that were worked on team practices. There are exactly zero games at 9 and 10 which are important to win so playing a weaker player another 5-10 minutes in a game is not going to be an issue at all -- unless the coach makes it one.

As far as 9 and 10 year olds and improvements -- they need to get better at everything. They're 9 and 10. They do nothing perfectly, and almost nothing particularly well. Seriously -- you are arguing that playing a 9 year old in a game for 30 minutes instead of 20 minutes will negatively affect his mental performance in the sport? Really? That's what you want to argue? Take a step back.
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The argumentative poster is nuts and doesn't know what he is talking about. As you say, all of the young players have many, many things they need to work on.  The truth is that most coaches judge quality of play based on size, speed, and strength.  Who is exhibiting better quality of play at U9?  Is it the little kid who dribbles past two opponents and then, when under pressure, sends a pass to his teammate that doesn't quite make it there because it wasn't strong enough?  Or the big fast kid who just  keeps running straight ahead, kicking the ball and running after it and letting a blistering shot go from anywhere on the field, regardless of where teammates are and regardless of whether the shot as any chance of going in?  I guarantee you that the latter kid is the one getting more minutes 8 times out of 10.Chances are, he will score a goal, probably more often than the kid who passed.  "Quality" is usually more developed physically and those are the players given more playing time at many clubs.

The funny thing is that those "quality" kids actually take away game touches from every player on the team because of poor first touches and impossible shots with the wrong body position. But they don't get pulled or have minutes reduced like the physically less developed kids.  The lesson the kids receive is that the big kid is "really good" and that the bench kid isn't as good unless a coach tells them otherwise.

Ultimately, some of the big kids pan out, but many do not.[/quote]

Lots of assumptions here. We know none of the context. So far the other players have been called favorites. The OP ADMITTED that their kid was not as talented. Parents form all kinds of crazy biases in their head and let their imagination run wild. But only the coach knows the real reason so for all your sky is falling speculation and hand wringing and hurt feelings the cost of a email or phone call to the coach is free. IN the coaches eyes, your kid is not good enough and until you actually talk to the coach you are just speculating nonsense.

All we know is some kids get less minutes than others. The bigger question is why and be willing to ask why. Perhaps it is because of everything you say. Perhaps it is none of what you say. But when it is your kid regardless of all the nonsense being spouted here is TALK TO THE COACH!

After that do whatever the hell you want to do. [/quote]

You've said that multiple times.  Do you think saying it more often makes it sound better? Or are you trying to Stockholm syndrome convince us through repetition?

1.  Any club worth its salt should be doing evaluations already.
2.  If a parent wants to try talking to a coach, that's fine.  Maybe they will get lucky and get that refund, but reality is it is likely to keep things the same or make them worse.  However, talk away if anyone wants.
3.  None of that changes what many of us feel:  that 9 year olds should be allowed to enjoy the game and PLAY.  Let them taste the joy of the game.  
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And if an evaluation isn’t provided then go and get one.

You talk to the coach because it is the adult thing and the bigger thing to do.

Your feelings are what are getting in the way. They remove your objectivity. Your hurt feelings are what are keeping you from acting like an adult and talking to the coach you have just signed 2-3k for the coming year.

Be all hurt and run to another club in a huff, I don’t care. I just think you can leave in a more adult and productive way for your kid and yourself. [/quote]

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