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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^ Pro tip to man whose wife will do it but never wants it. Get over it! Most wives don’t really want sex (with husband), they just do it to stay married. She’s doing her part (is uninterested but willing) so you do i yours (make it quick). This is just how marriage works.[/quote]

Right, I get it. I know but would it kill her to put on a show once a month and not act like I am bothering her?  It's why affairs are so powerful, to actually have a night where you can't wait to get each other naked.[/quote]

I agree. Having six with an uninterested person is AWFUL. Wife here. [/quote]

But consider the options for typical DH: 
A) sex with uninterested wife
B) affair
C) divorce

good husbands realize and accept that A is the least awful of these choices[/quote]

Well, its a good option for a while, and one I chose for a decade or more but at some point, you come to realize - darn, this is it and unless I chose option b or c I will literally never know what its like to have fun, reciprocal sex again.  Meaning, it's not just a phase or pregnant, breastfeeding, toddler, early years, but just what my marriage is.  And you will never, ever get to live out any sexual fantasy or explore or have fun other than "be quick"  Unless you have BTDT you have no idea what that can feel like.  Suddenly, option B sounds like oxygen.[/quote]

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