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Here's what it looks like:  I ask her what she likes, she says I do it already (oral for example), I ask if there is something she wants to try, she says no, she says she has no fantasies she wants to explore and everything I do is great (we do use toys and she finishes).  She just isn't ever, ever in the mood but will do it if I really want it.  I know it's hard to believe but I am attractive, fit, nothing overtly wrong.  We used to do it all the time, I didn't marry a prude.  She just lost desire as I suspect a lot of women do after a while and isn't motivated to get it back.  I don't take it personally.  It's not me, and I have zero problems attracting other women.[/quote]

This sounds familiar. And, despite what the sex-doesn't-suffer-unless-someone-is-at-fault crowd might want you to believe, talking to her more, doing chores, and/or treating her better isn't going to change anything. [/quote]

Are you fully dressed when you are having these conversations?  Like sitting at the kitchen table or something?

Or you are laying in bed, she tells you what she likes, you are doing it, and she just still can’t get into it?

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