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Reply to "whats the core issue in your marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Here's what it looks like: I ask her what she likes, she says I do it already (oral for example), I ask if there is something she wants to try, she says no, she says she has no fantasies she wants to explore and everything I do is great (we do use toys and she finishes). She just isn't ever, ever in the mood but will do it if I really want it. I know it's hard to believe but I am attractive, fit, nothing overtly wrong. We used to do it all the time, I didn't marry a prude. She just lost desire as I suspect a lot of women do after a while and isn't motivated to get it back. I don't take it personally. It's not me, and I have zero problems attracting other women.[/quote] This sounds familiar. And, despite what the sex-doesn't-suffer-unless-someone-is-at-fault crowd might want you to believe, talking to her more, doing chores, and/or treating her better isn't going to change anything. [/quote]
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