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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]wait I only read the first few pages but I am guessing he didn't take to the idea of taking the toddler himself, non?[/quote]

He wants to take the toddler himself but his wife wont allow it.[/quote]

It's his child too and she cannot refuse to let him take child with him.[/quote]

But she can question who will watch the child while DH and his parents, etc. will be focused on the wedding. She's entitled to know his plan.[/quote]

+1 Plus the grandparents want the dad and toddler to stay for a week after the wedding so the wife won’t get to spend Christmas with her son. She’s fine with toddler going to the wedding but she doesn’t want him to stay for the week after. But this dh won’t say that to his parents and makes his wife look bad (again). Plus, there will be no one who will be 100% responsible for this not even 2 year old - it’s a stupid plan. This husband should be doing whatever his wife wants and telling his parents to apologize. His priorities are screwed up.[/quote]

The DH is nuts but your facts are wrong. The DH wants to extend through Christmas if they ALL go. The DW doesn’t want the 2 yo to go even just for the wedding weekend. It’s all still bad, but keep you facts straight![/quote]

My bad - I stand corrected. However, I am still on the wife's side. Considering how dh's parents have spoken to the wife, if I were her, I would not want my kid alone with them without me either. Who knows how they will badmouth her in front of her kid and it is obvious (based on dh's responses) that he will not stand up for his wife. He is also ignoring everyone's points about how much danger would be putting the baby in by flying at that age (let alone at that time of year when it is RSV season). My kids were preemies and we barely left the house, let alone went on a plane.[/quote]

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