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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I just read through this entire thread and was surprised that there was so little discussion about OP talking to his wife about how he wasn't happy with the decision but is willing to accept it and stay at his current job if the house and dinner can be in better order. Seems he kept talking to his wife about getting another job instead of accepting her decision and just asking her to be better stay at home mom if that's really what she wanted to do. Maybe cut back on the crafts a bit. If said in an understanding way, I'm guessing the wife would make strides to do a better job at cleaning and making dinner especially as the little one gets older and the two can play together a bit without her involvement every moment.[/quote] I read through this and saw the exact opposite. It seemed like whenever OP tried to engage his wife, she shut down. That makes having a two sided conversation difficult. But good on him for cracking the code. He is probably going to be happier having made peace with things than divorced based on what he wrote. [/quote]
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