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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a DW in a similar situation. I work full time, have three children under the age of 6, pretty much run our household, and have struggled with yo-yo weight gain and loss. Mostly because I don't have time to go to the gym bc my husband expects me to run the household and do 90% of kid stuff in addition to working.

Our sex life sucks. But to be honest, it's DH's fault. If he stepped up and tried to create a more relaxing environment that was conducive to intimacy (helping more in evenings so I can relax, making dinner maybe once or twice a week, actually planning and initiating a date night once a month, etc), maybe I would actually want to have sex with him. Instead I feel like I am taking care of another child....

So maybe you need to accept some responsibility here for your wife's lack of interest. Maybe she is tired. Maybe she needs some effort from you. For women, sex is 90% emotional.

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Why the heck did you have THREE kids with this guy? I stopped at two, because that's all I could handle alone with a full time job AND a desire for an active sex life.[/quote]

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