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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The secret to my amazing marriage is my rampant libido. DH loves that. More than anything else I bring to the relationship - a clean house, a pay check, well raised kids, a fit body, and attractive face, my high educational qualification, my cooking abilities, my social acumen.   All of this is nice to have but pales in comparison to my sexual enthusiasm and insatiable appetite for sex with him.   It is what it is. Ladies, you can accept it or keep wondering why your DH and your relationship is at an impasse.  Men are not really that complicated.   Oh, and I know I will be flamed now by the women.[/quote]

Lol.  Clearly written by a dude pretending to be a woman.  You men are so transparent.   Thanks for the laugh.   :lol: [/quote]

No, very much a DW. I know I wrote it tongue in cheek and a bit flippantly, but it is what I have experienced in my marriage.  Our worst years (and having been married for 25 years I feel I have been through all kinds of highs and lows) - have been the ones with low or no sex.

Wanting to have sex with my DH translates to him that I want him for himself. Not for his earning abilities.  I have spent a healthy amount of my married life wondering if he valued things in me that I myself valued (education, career, kids, well run home). The plain truth is that he values my other attributes but only because he feels valued himself (because of the rampant libido).  These great attributes were present even during the tough no-sex years and he could not care less.

I can laugh about it now because the marriage is at a very good place.

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