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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that many men would feel insecure and apprehensive if their girlfriend had sex with 30 or more men before them. No doubt, many such men would not likely marry a woman that had sex with more than 30 men. Many men think women are sluts and permanently damaged and worthless if they've had more than 10 men, let alone 30 or more.[/quote]

It is entirely possible that a man could feel literal disgust at a woman who has had 30+ partners.

That is not being insecure - that is being smart.[/quote]

Disgust? Why, though? Wouldn't a man be overjoyed with marrying a woman that's ridden so many men? She's experienced! She's sexually "empowered" and has no hesitation to grab any man that makes her "tingle" and very comfortable in pursuing her desires to get screwed silly as much as she can! Isn't such a passionate, empowered attitude a good thing in a woman?[/quote]

Blanket statements like this are not applicable to all men.  I know men who would be completely comfortable with a woman who had more than 30 partners.   They don't view sex as something that is dirty or something that contaminates a person's body.

The kind of disgust you are talking about is based in a view of sex as something dirty and contaminating. It's a superstition.

If you feel that way, bless your heart. [/quote]

Do you think there are any QUALITY men whose opinion of a women is positively correlated to the number of sex partners she has had?

Oh honey, the thought of you sucking 50 different dicks just makes me so much more attracted to you!
Oh sweetie, I'm so glad you had those threesomes in college!  can we have one now?  no?
Oh kitten, it was 50 sweaty men that you stuck their dicks in your vagina?  WOW that makes me feel really special!

Not a god damn one, thats how many.

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Speak for yourself.

You are clearly fairly sexually and socially inexperienced or you would know more quality men who don't care.

I'm sorry for your ignorance. There isn't much help for it, though. [/quote]

Nice try.

But no.

There is not a single person on the planet who can make this argument with a straight face:

ALL OTHER THINGS EQUAL: I chose the higher partner number over the lower

Impossible.  not going to happen.  all other things equal like hotness, sex quality, self confidence, self image, all that

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Well, all other things are never equal, because in reality, we are always talking about two different people, but to save you the trouble of posting "THAT'S NOT THE QUESTION YOU MUST ANSWER ONLY AND EXACTLY THE QUESTION I POSE!!!!!!!" here you go: I would rather be with someone who has slept with more people.  I like to know that they know what they're doing in bed, and, if I'm interested in a long-term, monogamous relationship, I want to increase the odds that they won't see the need to wander for novelty's sake.[/quote]

and what is the point of diminishing returns for that extra experience and "stability" ?

is it 5?  10?  15?  25? 50? 100?  at what point does it begin to manifest negative attributes rather than positive ones?

this is real crux of the matter.  many posters saying higher is better!  but no, higher is not better because we can all safely say that 10,000 is not better than 1.  so if there is in fact a point of diminishing returns - what is it for you?

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I personally slept with people until I met the person that I married. And then I stopped sleeping with anyone but him.

That's not a number that's a life event. My advice to a daughter would be to sleep with whoever you want and don't worry about a number. It's not a numbers game. [/quote]

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