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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Give that man a break. 
He fell in love with a colleague. He doesn’t love his wife anymore. 
You don’t control who you fall in love with. What should he do? Ignore his feelings and live a miserable life with someone he no longer loves? 
He made the right decision for both of them. I bet that she doesn’t love him either. [/quote]

Then don't have kids to start with. [/quote]

The children will be okay. Divorce today is not the same as it was 50 years ago. People have figured out how to handle it. Half of all marriages end in divorce, which means that half of the population has parents who are divorced or grew up in single-parent households. This is now the norm. Deal with it. Don't cry. Life goes on.[/quote]

No.

First off 40% of children born here are out of wedlock and have no father figure. Are raised by the mother or maternal grandmother.

Of the 60% that do have married parents, half of those are absentee fathers doing no real fathering. Half of this 60% end up divorced. Half of that end up formally or informally not having >20% custody time.

So no, a failure father continues to fail at fathering. Having explicit 50% custody time is meaningless to a bare minimum check the box or avoidant parent. [/quote]

Your numbers are accurate, but your conclusions are incorrect. The parenting failures you mentioned don't really affect anything. These kids turn out just fine. The society is fine. The country is progressing and is stronger than ever.
You are the only ones panicking.
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