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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, all the money stuff is trying to concretize the gut punch of realizing you cared about someone, tried to help them along the way and that effort didn’t also form a bond between them. Not saying money should purchase that bond. Just this is a check along the way that yielded unexpected info.

Or, the groom is out of the loop for the wedding and in general.

If they were trying to exclude her son, they could have established a cut off of 12 or even 10. Absolutely not personal, clearly there are a bunch of kids and they drew a line.

No contact would be ridiculous.[/quote]

So she tried to buy the nephew’s interest in her son? That’s effed up. [/quote]

[b]No. Her son probably didn’t exist when the big gifts started.[/b] In the best spin, she tried to help him, she thought she had a bond with him and helping him was part of showing that.  She found out she didn’t matter as much as she thought.
Or, nephew didn’t know it mattered to her that a 9 year old was invited.

In fact, we don’t know what the dynamic actually is.[/quote]

So she gave this nephew money a decade ago and is shocked her kid isn't included in the wedding? GMAFB. [/quote]

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