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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.[/quote]

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?[/quote]

ExW is crazy.[/quote]
She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you? [/quote]

Troll math ain’t math’in
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It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess. [/quote]

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.
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At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4,  without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ? [/quote]
She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.
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I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.[/quote]
Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.[/quote]
So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?[/quote]

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.[/quote]
So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants. [/quote]

I loved her, thought she’d get better.[/quote]
I'm sure she did once you were out of her life. You'll never get better though.[/quote]
Are you the same loser trying to insult women on the fwb thread? What is wrong with you?[/quote]
Ment to reply to the manchild troll! I'm pretty sure he's just trolling this entire site[/quote]
Oh, phew, OK!! Yes, that guy is all over every thread. He's psychotic. I can believe he's a divorced male because a lot of them are like this. [/quote]

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