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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need to know more.  First, how old is the kid?  Second, how exactly is she being "hit on" besides being asked for her number?  Third, how old are the guys who are doing the hitting on/number asking?  Finally, how often is this happening?

Depending on these answers, the range of responses could be anywhere from "this is disgusting, she needs to quit NOW" to "she's not cut out to be a server and needs to quit now."  [/quote]
Women shouldn't need to quit, they should be able to feel safe doing their job. [/quote]

Depends on the answers to my questions.  If we're talking about a 16 year old who can't handle another 16 year old asking for her number while she's a server not feeling "safe," then she's the problem.  She needs to find another job where she can feel "safe."

I have an irrational fear of heights.  That doesn't mean that the operators of a toll bridge with the collection booth on top are obligated to make me feel "safe" up there.  It just means I have to work somewhere else.  
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Wrong. All women, and really, all people, should be safe from harassment at their job. This is not appropriate behavior. It doesnt matter her age or the age of people harassing her. It's inappropriate and should not be happening. Your bizarre claim that it's ok in some certain circumstances is flat out wrong. [/quote]

Where did these claims of "harassment" come from?  The OP said people asked for her number.  That's not harassment.  [/quote]

So in your opinion, what is harassment?[/quote]

Harassment is not taking no for an answer. [/quote]

OP's daughter is being harassed? [/quote]

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