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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People have become so narcissistic. I guess I can understand it for people in their 20s. I got married at 25 and thought my wedding was a big deal (but didn’t exclude kids). Now, pushing 50, I have more perspective. The chances to have the whole family/loved ones all together are few and far between. And nobody cares about a wedding being “perfect” - they won’t even remember it after a week. The fact that people don’t want children to “ruin” their day is sad. That just isn’t what it’s about. [/quote] Well, you're old. Your perspective has changed. You don't know if you'll see everyone again. Young people plan the parties they want to have. Start hosting annual family reunions to scratch that itch.[/quote] Late 40s is not old, but it’s a different perspective than 25. Plus it’s gross to use age as an insult. [/quote] I'm late 40s. Most of us joke we're old now. It's just the way it is. If you're not late 40s you don't really need to speak for us. Why would I think I should tell some 20 somethings what kind of wedding they should have or why my kids needed to be included? It's their time, I had mine.[/quote]
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