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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"his vicious temper" 
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing! [/quote]

Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.[/quote]

Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.[/quote]

Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.[/quote]

Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen[/quote]

So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.[/quote]

Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.[/quote]

But DH knew and was ok with keeping the silence [/quote]

DP, but honestly, who cares? I think what DH did was absolutely 100% wrong. However, I don't think he's wrong with being friends with someone who cheated or for not telling Dave's wife about it before now. I think he's a jerk for saying anything about it ever, then or now. I guarantee some of you are friends with cheaters but you don't know it. I would never cheat and have been cheated on to my knowledge but I'm also willing to admit that people are fallible and everyone makes mistakes. Someone cheating on their spouse doesn't say anything about what kind of friend they are. Yes, it says something about the kind of person they are, but I guess none of you live in glass houses and you can afford to condemn everyone for any wrong they commit. Good for you I guess? The rest of us understand that people make mistakes and we're willing to be friends with someone who cheated. Maybe DH has spent the last few years since the affair trying to get Dave to admit it to his wife. Maybe DH has condemned Dave for the affair but still remained somewhat friendly with him. Who knows? Th point is, it doesn't matter. That you would condemn DH for knowing about the affair but not saying anything about it until now is really myopic. DH blabbing about it on Facebook was an absolute d!ck move and he's a complete ahole. But not having said anything about the affair before now is a moot point. But I suppose not to you people who are perfect. [/quote]

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