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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This makes me sad that people are really arguing for keeping a grandma from her grandkid. My mom is the most gentle and kind person ever, but grew up in a culture where giving swats was a thing (and where people who were swat as kids do grow up to be kind and productive members of society). My mom would swat us as kids (never hard) but just as a way of saying "no." I made it very clear that we don't do that today with kids in the US and she has never swat my dd, but sometimes older people need to learn these things, especially when they come from different cultures. [/quote] Some older people in other cultures also grew up with genital mutilation, giving babies alcohol, locking them in closets, forcing them to get jobs. Are these things you think should slide because "they're old"? [/quote] oh ffs.. you have lost your mind. [b]Do you compare being groped on the butt with rape? [/b] That's the kind of logic you are using. As someone who was actually abused as a kid, you comparing a swat on the leg with actual abuse is really sickening.[/quote] DP, and yes. Sexual assault is a spectrum, and so is child abuse.[/quote] You can say that about any behavior. [/quote]
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