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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Asking bc that has been my experience. Met multiple nice good looking men who all have enormous financial liabilities. Either they earn very little or are broke after divorce and are too old to fully recover, or earn well but have huge obligations and/or are cheap AF. It’s a pity bc I’ve really liked several of them, but need someone similarly secure and am not getting into a financial quagmire.[/quote]

So, you've met my ex dh : )

You're smart not to get into their financial quagmires. Getting OUT of his was the best thing for me. No, I didn't take him for everything in the divorce-we literally earn the same (same paygrade in our agency), we do 5050 no child support exchanged. He chose to buy me out of my equity in the house (and to be honest, he made out better considering the increase in it, but I'm happy to be free of it), we split accounts/retirement 5050. But he's 'broke'. Money is 'tight'. Yet, I am doing well (neither of us has remarried, I do not plan to).

I spent many years policing our finances due to him. It's him, he's the problem. It's probably the same for those guys on OLD. I sometimes wonder if his gf is aware of this...[/quote]

So he has a house but no retirement?

In what ways was he a financial mess when you were married to him?[/quote]

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