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Reply to "Can't wait to change my surname, but notice many women keeping theirs, is there a reason for this trend?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No way i am changing my surname to my wife’s name [/quote] Because you don't like it? Because it's long and convoluted and difficult to spell and pronounce? Because it indicates a nationality/ethnicity/race that is not your own? Do tell![/quote] Not the poster you're addressing, but I'm pretty sure it has something to do with him being a men and her being a woman. I bet this is also 99% of the reasons women change their surnames.[/quote] It read like a setup for accusing others of heteronormativism to me. I was expecting a setup for PP to come back and be all "why did you assume I'm a man?" Regardless, people of any sex or gender don't have to change their names regardless of the sex or gender of the person they are marrying. This detail should matter to exactly nobody, other than the individuals involved and their own agreements between them.[/quote]
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