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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that most posters are being too harsh on OP.

I am a PP who says she has her own resentment to own and work on, but I totally get it.

My husband started helping me more (I'm a SAHM) because I'm pregnant and this pregnancy has been pretty hard on me, but he didn't nearly as much before. But I kinda needed him to take over some things. He still said a few very out of touch things about these changes which made me so angry and sent me into tears (e.g. why should I have to? Waah) but luckily I have a very good support network of a favorite aunt or two who will listen to me without judgment, talk me through the resentment and give me a way forward that isn't permanent hatred and divorce, point out my husband's good qualities and fundamentally good heart and intentions, and this gave me the strength to address the ridiculousness of my DH's comments objectively and calmly and even with humor, later.

We aren't in a perfect place. He also got more serious about religion lately which also committed him to the family. But I feel like I have a partner i can rely on in case of difficulty, way more than I felt before, which is a big deal. [/quote]

Thanks for sharing[/quote]

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