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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many self centered people here.  Me me me....  My reduced share of money, my reduced quality of time with dad, and my kids' reduced share of money from grandpa...

You are not entitled to anything.  How about your father's life and happiness?  You father has done his share of taking care of you.  Are you going to take care of your father when he needs care?  [/quote]

Me me me

Why are 2nd wives do selfish.

Denying him time with his kids fishing and golfing and spending weekends at sports events.

How about his happiness? Instead he’s changing diapers and watching kids lol v shoes. So sad.

Why do you need a man to support you, support yourself.

Yes adults take care of their parents when they need care, you seriously over estimate your mental and physical ability as an old woman. Your ability to move a man from bed to chair with your frail 70 yo body.[/quote]

No marriage with young kids goes well where one parent goes fishing and golfing while the other takes care of toddlers.  If it’s a one-off thing, okay. If it’s a regular thing. The souse doing the heavy lifting with the little kids will grow to hate the one who’s out recreating. [/quote]

It's not about fishing and golfing just for fun!  It's about spending time with and being a good father to your adult children. Things like helping me care for my toddler when I'm on bed rest with a difficult pregnancy. Visiting to spend time with the grandkids so I don't have to travel with them every single time. If you just can't stand the idea of your DH being a good father to his children, what does that say about you? You knew he had adult children, and you chose to marry him.

Remember, how he treats his adult children is how he's going to treat your children when they are adults, if he lives that long. What do you want for your children?[/quote]

Get a job and get a nanny[/quote]

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