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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, I hope this is your first and last baby because you seem to be completely overwhelmed and you’re only a few weeks in. Hiring help while you are a stay at home parent of one baby? Overcomplicating nursing and whining about waking up at night? You must be from a really privileged environment to think what you posted here is an actual problem. [/quote]

You sound like a condescending jerk. Many FTM parents find the newborn stage challenging with caring for a newborn, learning to breastfeed, lack of sleep. Not to mention recovering from giving birth.

OP isn't a stay-at-home parent. She is on maternity leave.

How is OP overcomplicating nursing? Sorry you had the privilege for it to go just as planned or made the decision to no breastfeed, but many mother sacrifice in order to breastfeed. There are women who struggle with low supply, latch issues, weight gain issues, etc. OP happens to have low supply and a baby struggling to gain weight. I think doctors and lactation specialists are more informed on the subject and her needs than you.

You must be really privileged for you to act so smug. You clearly are ignorant on breastfeeding and such topics but think you know it all.

Oh, and many families hire night nurses for babies. Sleep deprivation is hard on the body and used as a form of torture for enemies.

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