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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here again.

well, he just left on a trip and while he was in the shower I looked through his luggage. Packed plenty of sex supplies. And I looked through the drawer where he keeps them yesterday, and they were there, and I looked through this bag too, which didn't have them in there yesterday, so he definitely deliberately took them out of the drawer and put them in this bag for the trip today.

This hurts so bad. Just the dishonesty. I feel physically ill and my knees are shaking. I feel like I am living with a stranger.[/quote]

Wow OP, he seems to want to get caught on some level.

Btw, I know that feeling of waking up and feeling happy for the first few seconds. The crash into reality is the worst.

You've got this. It will be ok for you and the kids. [/quote]

OP here. It’s possible at some level he does. It’s also possible he’s just been doing this a long time and is really confident in my trusting nature. We’ve always had a lot of trust in our relationship, in both directions. I’ve traveled quite a bit too, have many male friends etc. he doesn’t have an issue with my independence, nor have I with his. Me snooping in his stuff is completely new for example. So he probably thinks he can fly under the radar. But don’t know. I agree there is an incredible self destructive streak to his behavior which could include wanting subconsciously to get caught. [/quote]

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