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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is why you don’t “compromise” on having kids. If you do not want another child 110% then that is a no go. Not surprised at this situation at all. [/quote]

I have two kids and love them and am very happy I had them, but I was never 100% sure, prob not even 80% sure about wanting them when I first got pregnant, let alone 110%. The husband sounds immature. Plenty of people have accidental pregnancies and figure out ways to adjust. My sister only ever wanted two, but she had an oops at age 42 that turned out to be twins! You work it out. [/quote]

I feel the same way, but we are women. I think it's different for men, in part because they don't go through the hormonal changes with pregnancy and childbirth. That's not an excuse for any man who is already a father not to get it together and go all in (once you are a parent, you just need to do it). But it is a warning to women who think if they just finagle their way into a pregnancy, their DH will meet the new baby and fall in love. Some men might do this, but some might not. Maybe it's hormones, maybe it's how they were raised, I don't know. It takes many men longer to learn to love their kids. [/quote]

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