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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ you need to read more critically.  No one is justifying murder.  Lots of people are recognizing that the wife was abused (gaslit, etc) and had a breakdown as a result, and was obviously (and understandably) not stable at the end.[/quote]

And that if you want to greatly reduce your chances of a crazy person going after you or your family, don’t f@“”ck and maintain a relationship with somebody that’s married.  Pretty simple.[/quote]

We have different takes on this. For me the lesson is that your marriage should not be the only thing that you have going for you. You need close friends and family. You need to build a world outside your marriage. You cannot own a human being. If someone does not want to be married to you move on. She is dead and buried. And  he is living his life, putting his ugly face out there, using her name to seek attention.

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These things are consolations and secondary. For most women, their marriage is the single most life-determining thing there is, and the original nuclear family they created and gave birth to is not replaceable like a new job or career bump. It is their soul.[/quote]

NP. Huh? What are you talking about? Your marriage is life-determining? Not a single one of my friends thinks of their marriage this way. A marriage and a family are a lot of work. Having friends and other life affirming outlets outside of the marriage and family is so important, that’s your lifeline in times of stress.[/quote]

+1.

I don't know a single woman who considers her marriage to be the most important thing. Many women try to hang on to uninterested spouses because they think the marriage is better for the children.

But in this case, there are no children involved. I am just baffled, and most women in my circle would be too. You have family, you have friends, why takeaway your life for someone. who does not care about you? It's just incomprehensible.[/quote]

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