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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - to be clear I never said ‘you will ruin my mental health by coming early’ 
I said ‘because I’ve had to work right up until the holiday this will be my first day off and I just really would love a second to breathe and regroup for sanity sake before I jump into holiday mode’. I tried my absolute best to be honest while not making it personal. Mil was the one who said ‘well we would not want to impact your mental health’ 
It was pretty close to the bone bc my mental health is in tatter this year but that’s for a lot of reasons, but I don’t think she’s unaware [/quote]

OP, you were completely in the right to do what you did.  You cannot control your MIL's narcissistic response.  Don't let them unhinged people here make you doubt yourself.  Just ignore them and let them make someone else miserable instead.  Consider it your Christmas gift to them.    :D [/quote]

I agree. I need a little time to myself before I have extra people in my house. Nothing to do with elaborate plans just me being introverted.[/quote]

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