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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I heard if you do laundry and dishes and take the kids so she can have me time she will get libido back for you. I’ve never seen that happen. But it’s a theory. [/quote]

Isn’t that your job as a f**king parent? Maybe she doesn’t want to have sex with a man-child who thinks he should be rewarded for basic contributions to the household. [/quote]

Can you imagine if moms would get a gold medal for doing the laundry and dishes?! [/quote]

Or watching our own children? [/quote]

How do I improve her desire for sex?
Do X,Y,Z.
Doing X,Y,Z didn't work.
Yeah, we were just kidding about that. We just thought you should be doing X,Y,Z anyway. [/quote]

Well, in fairness, you should be doing X,Y,Z because you are responsible for the house and kids. But no, none of those things will affect her desire to have sex. It's as rediculous when men troll about women needing to do dishes to cure their husband's ED.

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If the problem is burnout and exhaustion and not having time to herself, then someone else has to do it.

Also, most women are very turned on by having a husband who takes responsibility for things and is competent. It means she can relax and feel taken care of.[/quote]

Guys should definitely be doing X,Y,Z. But it's not a turn on for most women. It's completely separate from sex. I mean, I like it when my wife makes brownies or fills up the gas tank, but those things don't make me horny. [/quote]

I’m a woman, and it’s a turn on for me! Seeing my husband after he’s taken care of a lot of things and we have time to relax together — yes, definitely.[/quote]

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