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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, OP here! 21 pages! I've informed DH he is a selfish, lazy dick and I am a controlling, micromanaging harpy with a martyr complex. We spent a good deal of time arguing last night, came to somewhat of a resolution.

The difficult kid is 6, has behavior problems generally that lead to him frequently crawling out of bed and getting into trouble unless sound asleep and we were aiming for 8pm bedtime.

We are the most lax family ever, probably part of the problem that we dont live by strict rules. I had planned on doing my zoom call from our bedroom, so finding a child in there watching youtube was disruptive.[/quote]

[b]Sounds like you needed to communicate your expectations more clearly. AKA kid must be in his room and asleep before you can enjoy time with your friends. [/b]But if you don't actually enforce strict bedtime rules, hard to see what he did wrong other than the kid needed to be in his own room. If he knew you were planning to zoom in the BR, I would have been annoyed too (though not to the point of screaming at him in front of his friends).[/quote]
Well she’s already been roasted for being too controlling. That was a couple pages ok where people were insisting one person can’t dictate parenting. 
But seriously, come on. A father can be told to put the kid to bed without a manual.  If he can’t, he’s not helping enough. [/quote]

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