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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m 37 and single. I’ve been trying I find a certain type of woman and just haven’t. You can say I’m looking for a 1950’s housewife. I don’t expect a servant or anything like that, but I wanted a woman who wants to stay at home taking care of her kids and husband. I’m looking for a woman who wants to take care of raising the kids and responsibilities of the household, while I work and manage things like finances. Most of the women I meet want to be a SAHM only short-term, or want to be a SAHM but expect the man to be a 50/50 partner in childcare and household responsibilities. I’m looking for a woman who can handle the bulk of it. How do I find a woman like this? [/quote]

I was exactly like you described, a SAHM raising kids, and managing small family rental business while my husband was taking care of his high flying corporate career and finances. You know what? 15 years later I discovered he cheated on me for 5 years, cheated IRS for hundreds of thousands, and hid a business in Switzerland under a fake beneficiary. I am now trying to get out from this near criminal story with no independent job of myself, and he tries to make me sink with him, and to divide our small rentals, while he hid millions in Swiss accounts.

If any normal woman is reading it: NEVER, EVER GIVE UP INDEPENDENT CORPORATE INCOME TO BE SAHM!!! I am paying for my decision dearly 15 years after. [/quote]

I'm sorry this happened to you. Maybe you could do an AMA. I think it could help people.[/quote]

Happened to my friend too. Navy guy. Started abusing her. She did everything for him. Even supported his family who came over and couldn’t live on their own. Had the family member live with them. Was ok giving the family member money. Took care of everything at home. The guy was just extremely controlling. I think it’s the guys that really want the SAHP that are the ones to look out for. They can be inflexible and controlling. [/quote]

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