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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not in my 50s, but also in a very low sex marriage mid 40s, it's been 4 months since the last time and maybe 6 times this year.  My wife knows its not sustainable, and at this point, we are both seemingly resigned to it.  So it's wouldn't be a shock to her if I announced a divorce now although she said she doesn't want one when we have the talk.  And if it had been 5 years, my guess is she would expect it.

Who believes a sexless marriage is a happy one?[/quote]

People who don't think about or want sex.  [/quote]

It is so interesting to me that all of these men believe that all other people value exactly the same things that they themselves value.

Big news:  people aren’t all the same and so they may not value exactly the same things and in same order.  You need to communicate with your spouse, especially if you have been married so long to the person.  Divorce should never be a surprise.[/quote]

Ok, just so it isn’t a surprise to you down the road:

Men want sex.

You got that? You won’t claim to be surprised that your husband’s libido didn’t drop just because yours did?[/quote]

Not my ex. He wasn't ever all that interested and finally told me "it was too much like work". I'm serious.  And that's not even close to the reason I divorced him. Now my good friend divorced her husband and one of the reasons was a lack of sex. She found a college bf and left her wonderful husband. Yes they had a lot of sex, BUT a year later she called me saying she made a HUGE mistake. I already told her, so did other people. It was a big mess and she was stuck with the bf. The ex didn't want her back. She was a SAHM that had a great life and traveled. Did anything she wanted until she left her good life for a idiot. Sex doesn't carry a long term relationship, and it does get old like everything else.[/quote]

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