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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not in my 50s, but also in a very low sex marriage mid 40s, it's been 4 months since the last time and maybe 6 times this year. My wife knows its not sustainable, and at this point, we are both seemingly resigned to it. So it's wouldn't be a shock to her if I announced a divorce now although she said she doesn't want one when we have the talk. And if it had been 5 years, my guess is she would expect it. Who believes a sexless marriage is a happy one?[/quote] what have both of you done to fix it?[/quote] I have had countless coversations, bought lingerie, toys, taken her on trips, sought feedback on what she enjoys, doesn't enjoy, offered to explore fetishes, desires, even open the marriage, taken days off to meet her at noon when she is more rested, bought and read books on the subject. She has offered that if it is that important to me, to go ahead and do it but please don't take too long.[/quote]
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