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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The reason I've had trouble believing OP from the beginning is not that abuse does not happen.  However, it usually happens behind closed doors.  I find it unlikely that abusers are as blatant and obvious as OP made this seem.  To hear her tell it, brother is practically fondling the sister at the local swimming pool.  Abusers tend to isolate their victims and try to maintain normalcy for the sake of public appearances, but apparently this family goes on vacation with OP's family and, according to OP, there were other friends of the family who witnessed all this inappropriate behavior.  This is where the story does not seem true.  [/quote]

This is definitely true of adult abusers, but may not be the case when children are the abusers.  Particularly if the child does not see anything wrong with it. I remember, back when I was 12 or so (40+ years ago), I had a friend (a year or so younger than me) who's younger sister (4 or 5) would hang out with us.  Bottom line is he told how he would put in in her (or near her).  The context was we were in the woods and peeing....and sister was trying to pee with us.  (FWIW, family was totally f****ed up.  His mom later (when I was 13 and her H was deployed) seduced me.  So, it is possible he does not realize it is wrong.

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Even if what he told you is the truth, he told a peer, not an adult, and he wasn't doing it in public or in front of other people.  That actually supports my point.  That family does sound awful; hope the kids somehow managed to be ok.[/quote]

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