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I have been awake all night being in investigative mode. I woke up DH this morning and asked him why he was out till 2 am last night. He said he was out with his boss. I said thats cool but was there someone else? He said what are you talking about? I asked how is your girlfriend? He says I am annoying him and I need to stop. I say well you stay out till 2 am so surely there is someone else. He says he is married and I should stop saying such disgusting things. I say I am not but I find it suspicious that he is out so late on a week night. He says I am psycho and that I should go to work and leave him alone!

I am now at work and feeling intolerably alone and devastated. I did not sleep a wink last night. I am exhausted and traumatized. My world and everything I knew is crashing around me. I know I must be stealthy and continue to get to the bottom of this as he will not become truthful. But I want to slap him and confront him today. How am I supposed to go to bed with him?[/quote]

I am going to be as gentle as I can here, because I've been where you are.

You are in an awful place. I am so so sorry this is happening to you. But this is the moment where you need to be strong. Call an attorney. Make a plan. Tell him to get out.

I know this is all overwhelming and awful, but the die has been cast. You didn't do it. He did. All you can do right now is figure out whether you are going to handle yourself with dignity or not. You can't undo what has been done, so just figure out how to exit your marriage with your finances intact, as much custody as you want, and feeling like you took the high road. [/quote]

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