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Nice strawman argument and you are changing the topic.

Children of lesbian couples have two parents.

Children adopted by single mothers are not ideal, but better a single mother than a child with no home.  Those kids are often older or minority children or hard to place children.  I don't support single mothers adopting babies when couples are available to take the baby.

When a man has a baby, he should support the baby financially and emotionally. He should be a father.  [b]It is his responsibility.  He should not abandon one child in favor of other children.  It is immoral to make him choose between his children.[/b]  If you are the wife who seeks to do this, the husband should divorce you immediately because you are a monster. [/quote]

Yet he does, doesn't he.  Even if a man chooses to stay in touch with the outside child while married, he IS choosing his other children. They will have a full-time father, a much more solid emotional foundation, more money, more attention, more everything.  The outside child won't get equal treatment. You get that, right?[/quote]

Nobody said the father had to have a perfectly equal relationship with the child of the affair.  He should do what he can, though, and not abandon that child.

By your logic, if the wife has one child (or several older children) and the mistress has one child, the father would be perfectly reasonable to abandon the marriage to raise his new baby.  He has to choose, right?  Nothing can make it fair, right?  The child in the marriage already had time with in a father in the house.  The new baby deserves the same. [/quote]

Except most marriages after an affair do not last.  An affair thrives on darkness and can't survive the light.  [/quote]

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