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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][size=9] [/size][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. Haven't read the 207 pages. Some friends this girl had. Even if she hooked up with the guy, when she didn't show up for the excursion after she venmo'd for it, how could they just go about their day until 4pm. And this guy with the hero syndrome most likely did something to her. And the parents knowing she's dead probably just don't want her name dragged through the mud by the Indian circle in Ashburn and Aldie and want her declared dead. They must be looking out for their other children. It's sad that this girl won't get justice.[/quote] Well, you should read the 208 pages. Nothing you have said hasn't been said already and discussed.[/quote] Her parents’ action is not even based in law and it’s an extremely unusual action, esp less than 2 weeks after she went missing. They have created an additional spectacle. I’m not sure both parents are in agreement re this timing. [/quote] My guess is that they have been pressured in some way using their citizenship/residency status as leverage. They have two younger kids at home whose lives have already been turn upside down by what has happened to their sister. Being deported from the only place those kids know of as home would cause additional trauma. Pure speculation, but that was the feeling I got watching their news statement. [/quote] US sent FBI and HS, parents were not pressured. I think they left after only 3 days when videos went public. I think [b]father is motivated by shame [/b]and mother may not have been in agreement. It is possible she was trafficked, even after he passed out. Parents action has all but shut down searching. It’s in interest of DR, not US, India or the poor girl to sweep under the rug after only 11 days.[/quote] How are your concluding this?because of their citizenship?[/quote] The parents are absolutely NOT ashamed of their daughter. The fact that you are baselessly accusing them of this is so messed up. Did you consider that their family and friends might read what you are saying? If my daughter disappeared with the chance that she is dead my thoughts wouldn't be how ashamed I am of her. What the hell? These are not people of means. They are also immigrants. Navigating this situation with these strikes against you in hard. Put yourself in the position of living in a foreign country with few financial resources and trying to navigate this tragedy. They likely had to declare her dead before they could get access to her phone records, handle her school business, get additional assistance. There are so many reasons but shame isn't one of them. I can guarantee that. [/quote]
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