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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How many of you DC Moms who have slept with 20+ people would recommend the same path for their 15 year old daughters? Or better yet, how many of your husbands would recommend that for their 15 year old daughters? [/quote]
I have had 12 or 13 partners, including DH, but I would have had many more if I didn't meet DH at age 26. I can't imagine why I would recommend a particular number for my daughter. How stupid. I would give my daughter the same advice I have given my younger sisters:

1. Being horny is the only reason to have sex (sex is not to please a man or secure his affection);

2. Not wanting to have sex is the reason to avoid sex (abstaining does not make you good and others' mental hangups about female sexuality have no place in your bedroom);

3.  Always prioritize your pleasure and kick to the curb any man who is a selfish lay;

4.  Make sure to use condoms to prevent STDs even if you are on the pill.

As long as the women who look up to me follow those rules, I'm happy. May they enjoy good sex always.[/quote]

+1000, I am a previous poster who has been w/ around 30 people and also have never made a sex tape or slept with more than one person at a time, etc. I also agree that I would tell my daughter these same things and I would want her to enjoy herself, while respecting herself, you can do both! there is nothing to be ashamed of if you embrace your sexuality, in fact it might be a good thing for your future marriage. I will also add that just because I was "slutty" in my younger years does not translate as being so in my marriage. I knew what I wanted sexually in a partner and made sure my husband was a good fit and now we have a great sex life. There are no complaints of a sexless marriage here. I hope my daughter has the same good fortune. [/quote]
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