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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Best thread ever,[b] and clearly the strategy most likely to save my marriage to an emotionally abusive and absent spouse with a hot temper and inability to take responsibility for his actions. [/b]

But here's my big question for those who feel good about where they are with this strategy- how do you feel about the impact on your kids?  I'm worried about what I'd be modeling for them and their future potential relationships. 6yo DS already mimics his Dad's hot button, unpredictably yelling.  So how do I show him it's ok by trying to not care about it? Even if I stop caring, I don't want my son to think its okay to treat people that way.[/quote]

WHY would you want to save a marriage to someone who is abusing you???? Your children will hear and see. Do you want that shit in their heads warping them??

THIS is what I cannot understand about this thread. Anecdote after anecdote of women tied to men who are disinterested, selfish, and rude at best to abusive at worst. WHY would you want to save these marriages? Ladies, you can do better![/quote]

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