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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Using the word prude makes someone a potty mouth? You've just proven her point, Ms Prudy. [b]You are also redefining the discussion. OP referenced a five year old, within the rules at her pool. [/b]You fabricated pools that have rules for three year olds and then insisted that a three year olds need to be supervised did not trump your screwed up daughter's "need" to be comfortable. Btw, my daughter is not comfortable in communal changing rooms. She is particularly uncomfortable around middle age women. Perhaps I should demand that you change elsewhere? After all, it's all about the ten year old's comfort isn't it? I thought that a reasonable parent would tell her to suck it up, but I guess I need to demand special treatment like you instead. It was pointed out that you are nuts. [b]You have no right to dictate what mothers do with their young children especially when it involves them being unsupervised. If you have a problem with the rules then you need to go elsewhere. [/b]End of story.[/quote] Your post is completely off base as to me: I'm talking to the lady who told someone to f-themselves at least 2x. I am not the poster about the 3 year old limit. I do have a right to dictate what moms do with their kids if they aren't following the rules posted and to be applied to all. I'll bring it up to that mom and management every time I see it. I'll also address her directly. It is not just about the girl's comfort. It is about the rules and why they are there and how they are for everyone. [/quote] How about you read this again. And again if you still don't get it. [b]We[/b] are talking and talking and talking about people who [i]are[/i] following the rules. [b]You seem to have an issue about people [i]following the rules[/i].[/b] Apparently the rules (under 6) shouldn't apply to 5 year olds. Well, guess what, they do. And you can complain as much as you want but it is you who will be removed from the facility not the mom with her son who is quietly minding her own business helping him get dressed.[/quote] No, YOU don't get it. I've been saying that the issue is with people who aren't following the rules. These are the harpies who are saying their baby at 6 or 7 can't get out of the suit himself or that he'll be molested if he goes in to the men's room himself. That is what the issue![/quote] Look, I have not said that. Plenty of people have not said that. Most people here have talked about their 5 year old. AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN. Now, answer me this. Would you leave your 5 year old daughter in the locker room to get changed on her own?[/quote]
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