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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would she be poor if she's got half of their assets to live off of. She's getting half the house FFS. what we're saying is she doesn't need alimony and isn't entitled to not have to work if he's working and their kids are grown adults. [/quote] So, if your dad made $300k/yr, you would have been fine with your dad leaving your mom for his secretary and not paying any alimony, even if she had stayed home with you and your siblings for 20 years? You would want your mom to get a job bagging groceries at Wal-mart, and no part of you would have been even slightly irritated with your dad? [/quote] Alimony isn't limited to wealthy executives leaving their wives for secretaries. A teacher making $80k can end up paying alimony too. Being self-sufficient doesn't require maintaining the exact same lifestyle indefinitely. There's nothing wrong with an apartment once the kids are grown and it's just one person. I love my apartment and don't have to cut the grass every weekend. Don't knock it until you try it, pp. [/quote] My husband had to pay child support, alimony, and military retirement to his ex who cheated on him and he made abotu $65K. He had about $1K to live on at the time so he got stuck in a shared apartment. Her AP paid her rent while he screwed over his ex and gave her no child support/nothing. [/quote]
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