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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A baby surrendered for adoption goes to a home filled with love and with a person or people who have been longing for them.  That's not a sad ending. It is the beginning of a happy story.

Open your mind. [/quote]

GTFOOH.  Separating a baby from his mother is the beginning of unrelenting grief for her and unrecoverable loss for him.  It is trauma.

And there is absolutely no guarantee that adopters are any more loving or stable than she is.  The fact that they covet someone else’s baby for whatever reason (usually infertility) doesn’t mean they’re marriage is healthy, they are mentally or emotionally stable, or that they are decent people.

Statistically, all it makes more likely is that they are substantially older and more wealthy.  None of that makes a child more likely to thrive or be happy or be with good people.

This child has a mother who wants him and a grandmother able to provide substantial financial support.  Adoption is out of the question and a ridiculous thing to suggest.[/quote]

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