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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again

I was trying to just sit back and absorb and try not to interfere with things that are not my decision, and just told him I’d be here for whatever he needed when he needs me.

This all just started Wed night and today Tuesday he just texted me she’s delivering now at (kindly) approximately 33 weeks

Baby will need to stay in the NICU for at least a week

I have no more words, maybe they were both in such shock it caused her to go into preterm labor

His father has put him in contact with a lawyer. I don’t know what for yet. I just presume that he’s still in shock and doesn’t know how he feels about anything but it’s definitely about to get very real now.

I just hope that the actual presence of a live infant will help both of them decide where they are going to fall on all of this emotionally. I still don’t know how her mom & grandma feel about it or even if she’s told them.

He doesn’t want me to be there just now.

I imagine you never know until you’re actually there how it will all feel. I feel so helpless. 
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Hmmm, possible but unlikely that a 33 seeker would only spend a week in the NICU. Why did she deliver early?

I would honestly wonder whether she was more than 32 weeks, whether she’s known all along and whether your son is the father.[/quote]

Yes. Oh, yes. Or wanted a baby no matter what and lied to him.  I think maybe after 4 or 5 missed periods most people would do a pregnancy test.

And what is with her family? Abusive? Religious? [/quote]
It was his girlfriend. Why did he not notice anything. They sleep together and he noticed nothing, no body changes, no menstrual cycling, nothing? Why didn’t he use protection?  Why is everything 100% her cross to bear?  Yall treating this 27 year old man like a prepubescent child. Stop. He needs to take some accountability and then responsibility as well. [/quote]

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