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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]God, someone makes this exact post every week. It’s so tiresome and repetitive.

This really is a spouse selection issue. The reality is that very few women who complain about husbands not doing housework or carrying mental load prioritized these characteristics when dating.

A few may have been duped by misleading men, but the reality is that the others were too busy focusing on 6-6-6 criteria and now are crying because their man doesn’t want to do laundry when he never did it before marriage either.
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What I find tiresome is someone posting this exact rant like 20 times on each of these threads and not giving a sh*t when people explain that was not the case at all, because they enjoy congratulating themselves for being lucky way too much. God do you really not have anything better to do with all your free time that your perfect husband makes available to you? [/quote]

I'm not the PP and I'm not defending your post, but it seems to me that the main problem with these posts, and others, is that people think certain groups are monoliths and that a singular experience must also be the global experience.

Are there women out there who asked the right questions, considered the right things, and did everything "right" but still ended up with dud husbands and are shocked to find themselves in that situation? Absolutely.

Are there women out there who didn't ask any questions, didn't consider anything, and did nothing "right" and ended up with dud husbands and are *shocked* to find themselves in that situation? Absolutely.

Are there women out there who did it "right" and are married to wonderful men? Yes.

Are there women out there who didn't do it "right" and are married to wonderful men? Yes.

Some people are lucky, some people are unlucky, and some people are somewhere in between. [/quote]

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