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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few things. 1. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. 2.[b] A six year old showing up with a concussion and a visibly angry/inappropriately behaving parent could easily have triggered a mandatory report. [/b]CPS could give a crap about the inconvenience your DH experienced. When you discuss this, I would point that out to him. 3. I’d be recording this. Swearing at a toddler who had a middle of the night need? That’s got “something he’s going to deny later” all over it. 4. Sorry but you have to be the medical-matters parent because your husband is literally neglecting them.[/quote] Yeah, this. Did he behave himself at urgent care? We had an ambulance take our daughter to the hospital when we thought she might have sustained a concussion during a sporting event and we were questioned TWICE by the hospital's CPS person. She and her twin were in their sports uniforms, I was there with my husband/her dad, the ambulance had picked her up at the sporting event so they knew what happened and there was no way either my husband or I had been the cause of her injury, and frankly I thought we were being overly cautious taking her to the hospital (it wasn't clear if she had actually passed out after hitting her head but someone said the gold star treatment is to take her in so we did, and called an ambulance!). The hospital was also associated with her pediatrician so they had all her medical records and could see that she hadn't been treated for suspicious things in the past like broken bones, bruises, etc. I guess I'm glad the hospital is so careful because maybe it does weed out some cases of abuse but I was really shocked that we were questioned so extensively about what had happened. They also asked the same questions re guns, prescription medications, etc. that our pediatrician asks every year as their well child exams. [/quote]
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