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[quote=Anonymous]I wish I understood the impetus to leave your children.  In my case, my now ex was the one that pursued me. I thought we were just having a fling while working.  He wanted to be serious.  He was the first to ask if I wanted children.  He proposed.  Everyone we worked with was happy when he proposed, and everyone told me what a great guy he was.  He had always been supportive and attentive.

Fast forward 5 years.  I had two children with him and found out he was a cheater.  Confronted him, he lied extensively about the nature of the cheating, but I dug and figured out that he had basically been serially cheating for the entire 5 years.  Sociopathic.

Of course, I kicked him out, but offered him 50/50 and encouraged a relationship with the kids.  He played circus dad for a while and then married someone else, and essentially walked out on the kids.

I think he was just the kind of person who manipulates others for his personal gain.  The kids are just one more set of people for him to manipulate for his own gain.

Wife #2 looked like she could provide money and stability and organize his life.  Unfortunately for him, that failed also.

Now that she's out of the picture, he's showing more interest in the kids. Again, just for his personal gain - I think he would like them to support him in his old age. [/quote]

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