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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Welcome to the application process for highly qualified daughters.  If your daughter is white or Asian, it's even worse.  The stats don't lie - your daughter is competing with far more applicants exactly like her than boys.  Check the Common Data Set stats and you will see it - applicants are mostly girls.  Are you middle class - specifically in the not so sweet spot of a family earned income between 200K and 400K a year?  It's even worse than just having a daughter!

[b]A boy with those stats would have a bigger advantage than a girl in gaining admission simply because there aren't enough boys applying. [/b] Add to that the middle class earned income no fly zone where you earn just enough to pay for school but not enough to pay full tuition, and it becomes a tougher road.  The stats and the achievements are only part of the equation.

You should feel upset - your kid busted their behind and others who may be less deserving but fulfilled some unknown need of the colleges on the list got their admit.  It sucks, but it's where we are.

My DD was in the exact same boat but we applied to places where she had clear opportunities at a full ride (in addition to the standard T20 applications) and she got more than one full ride offer at what would be considered by most here as lower tier schools. That helped her get over the sting of not being accepted to the T20s in her list.

My attitude would be as follows - those other schools didn't want my kid?  F them - they're missing out, and we are going to focus on the ones that showed my kid some love and love them right back.[/quote]
Um there are a lots of high stats boys applying to CS/Eng programs at top schools. High stats boys get shut out of T10 for CS/Eng, including my own kid.[/quote]It helps to goto an expensive private school then they know you can pay sticker price[/quote]

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