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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I are still paying off my grad school loan. We have combined bank accounts so it’s not like there’s any way to actually delineate who’s paying what on it. He also supported me while I stopped working for two years to do it. But he has benefited from my going back to school. I increased my income by over three times what I was making before. We get to live in a nicer house and go on nicer vacations and do nicer things for our kids because of it. I could see where if a married couple keeps separate finances it would be tricky because doing that maintains the ‘his’ vs ‘hers’ mindset. This is bad for a marriage.[/quote] Yup! Do that and also go in with the mindset---I need to do this to protect myself (ie the marriage wont' last) and you are setting yourself up for....the marriage wont last[/quote]
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