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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting thread.

We live in Mclean, and we've thought about moving to other areas (ski town in the Rockies, mostly) but I feel strongly that raising kids in a competitive, driven environment is important. The world is a competitive place, I want my kids to be successful and have an impact, and here they are exposed to so many successful and competitive people. I think it's a good thing. If you surround yourself with high-achievers you are more likely to achieve, right?[/quote]

or think of yourself as a low achiever even though you are doing your best.[/quote]

This. Growing up in an environment where "achievement" is most valued (as opposed to family, personal fulfillment, balance, happiness, charity) breeds insecurity. If what matters most is winning, most people will be failures.

Whereas if what matters most is creating a fulfilling and meaningful life, thus is possible for anyone, and there is also no time limit.[/quote]

You can value achievement and still value family and happiness even more. For a good example,  look at Nigerian American families and see how close they are to their families and how supportive they are of their families. Then take a look at how proud they are of their educational, professional and other achievements.
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Have you ever met an Indian? They are also very family and achievement oriented.[/quote]

Indian very cocky though [/quote]

Why?   Their country is third world where people live in dumps and nobody cares.  Where women are second class citizens and honor killings and caste systems are a thing.   [/quote]

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