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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting thread.

We live in Mclean, and we've thought about moving to other areas (ski town in the Rockies, mostly) but I feel strongly that raising kids in a competitive, driven environment is important. The world is a competitive place, I want my kids to be successful and have an impact, and here they are exposed to so many successful and competitive people. I think it's a good thing. If you surround yourself with high-achievers you are more likely to achieve, right?[/quote]

or think of yourself as a low achiever even though you are doing your best.[/quote]

This. Growing up in an environment where "achievement" is most valued (as opposed to family, personal fulfillment, balance, happiness, charity) breeds insecurity. If what matters most is winning, most people will be failures.

Whereas if what matters most is creating a fulfilling and meaningful life, thus is possible for anyone, and there is also no time limit.[/quote]

I grew up in Potomac and chose to go to therapy because my parents' worldview has really impacted my mental health. I want to raise my kids differently but it's also inside of me even if I move out of the UMC places.[/quote]

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