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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you ever feel bad for the spouse (and/or kids)?  How did you reconcile entering someone else’s family like that.

Did you wish he/she would divorce or die so in your mind you could end up with them?

I’ve heard some really awful things from OW so just wondering anonymously what let you cross that line?

I got hit in a lot by married co-workers and others and my mind always went to their wife.  I never wanted to do that to another woman, even ones I didn’t know. If things got heated, I’d distance and put up a wall.  Things just don’t happen….[/quote]
I worked in a hospital several years ago. One of the nurses went aggressively after a guy who was in a prestigious radiology fellowship. He was married with kids and his wife had supported him all through med school and residency, but he chose to break his vows. The nurse got pregnant and became wife #2. She’s popped out 2 more kids and is enjoying the good life now. [/quote]

Her "good life" is bought at the cost of constantly knowing -- or obliviously trying to forget -- that , as the saying goes, "if he will cheat WITH you, he will cheat ON you." Maybe she's convinced herself she's his one great love, of course. Hope she enjoys her delusion and the "good life" she thinks she and her kids have. [/quote]
The man's marriage must not have been good if he's having unprotected sex with someone who isn't his wife. Some of you act like men are simply innocent babes roaming the Earth, unable to resist any sort of temptation. It's always someone else's fault when he cheats.[/quote]

Read the literature, even the most recent Hopkins study, it actually has ZERO to do with the marriage.  Most men are very happy.  They cheat for their own messed up reasons or just because they can in a 50-year marriage.  It’s not the wife’s fault or the marriage.

A cheater is a person with no morals and horrible coping skills and very self-centered.[/quote]

Can you send link? [/quote]

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